Tuesday, November 29, 2005

My fuck buddy (cute boy) is coming to town next week and staying at my place for a week. See after he graduated he moved to Seattle and I haven’t seen him in ages. Normally, I’d be thrilled for such an occasion and, don’t get me wrong, I still am. But I do have the slightest bit of apprehension.

Let me backtrack for a minute. David, the lawyer from Jdate, essentially dumped me after standing me up for our sex date. Whatever, I’m over it.

On Sunday, I had a Starbucks date with a boy that I’ve been talking to over Jdate for a little while. He’s adorable, born in South Africa, moved to Canada when he was 8 and wants to be Quinton Tarantino. I’m going to call him Tarantiny cause he’s kinda little and I think that’s cute. Now this boy is pretty great. Very funny, nervous but in a good way, creative, lives in Manhattan, wears chucks and says “soorey” in the most adorable accent ever. He even came to my show last night and carried my guitar. He’s not a bad kisser either.

Here’s the issue. I like this boy, he’s sweet, nice…but I don’t owe him anything. I don’t care that I will be definitely sleeping with my fuck buddy when he’s in town, while attempting to maintain that first few weeks relationship with Tarantiny. What I am concerned with the is the fact that I am about to see this boy for the third time in a week tonight and I think he’ll be a little concerned when I can’t see him at all next week. I can’t just drop off the face of the earth? How will I ever juggle this?

Such a hard life for me huh?

10 comments:

J said...

well you guys aren't locked into anything so you can see who you please...

Though you can juggle like the diva that you are. Keep the communications going- call him but keep reminding him how late you have to stay at work- (work=fuck buddy) So apologize and make it convincing, say "sorry this week is so crazy I'll make it up to you next week" Key wording to keep him around....

OR you can be like hey my friend is in town and I'll be 'showing' him around 'NY' though only trouble with this, he may invite himself along...

Watch smitten... it's icy waters but I'm sure you can weather any storm.

But by the way, don't give him the blog URL... hee hee

SomedayGirl said...

Hmm, I would avoid the lying route, that spelled trouble with Older Navy and the Lawyer.

Not sure how to navigate this one. I would perhaps tell him you have a friend in town, if he asks the deal, be honest. If he likes you, he'll stick around... and regardless, will appreciate the truth. Besides, who knows what else *he* has going on.

Anonymous said...

wait wait..what happened w/ david, the lawyer man?

Anonymous said...

I'm with Jax...Per usual...This is what juggling is all about.

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